5 Things to Do if Celebrating Thanksgiving is Hard This Year

5 Things to Do if Celebrating Thanksgiving is Hard This Year

 

I’m a fan of Thanksgiving.

I love the turkey, giblet gravy, cranberry sauce, dressing, and green bean casserole.

I love the cooler weather, the gold and garnet leaves , and the almost naked trees.

I love football and the Thanksgiving parade with Santa at the end, and I love gathering with family and friends–whoever can come.

As a child, Thanksgiving was one of my favorite holidays, along with Easter. When I grew up and moved away, it was always a struggle not to be sad if we couldn’t travel home. But the great thing about being a military family was that there were always others who needed family that day too. So, I invited other people to celebrate this day of thankfulness with us.

There were years when I really missed my grandmother’s homemade rolls and my mom’s cornbread dressing–years when a hole in my heart made the celebrating difficult, but I’ve learned a secret to those difficult holidays when things don’t seem right. When there is a heaviness, an emptiness, worry, or fear.

First, I thank the Lord for those good memories, and then I let go, as best I can, to make room for new memories. A good friend of mine, JoAnne Macco Silvia wrote about The Blessing of Letting Go.  Joanne explains why trees must let go of their leaves as well as the benefits of letting go of things in our lives. She writes:

When we let go of burdens, we make room for blessings.

We let go of resentment to make room for love.
We let go of worry to make room for hope.
We let go of doubt to make room for joy.

I would add to that wonderful list that sometimes we have to let go of yesterday to make room for today’s blessings.

Sometimes we have to let go of yesterday to make room for today's blessings. Click To Tweet

This is what I do when celebrating Thanksgiving is hard:

  • Give myself permission to do something nontraditional like cooking hamburgers on the grill or baking lasagna.
  • Find someone who needs a family to share the holiday with.
  • Practice thankfulness. Be thankful for the memories, the people in my life now, and the fact that I live in a country that has set aside a day to be thankful.
  • Serve at a homeless shelter.
  • Enjoy a low-key day if it’s just our little family and make a memory like playing football outside or taking a walk together.

The bottom line is, no matter what our feelings are telling us, we always have so much to be thankful for. I loved this verse from the Bite of Bread this week.

Let them give thanks to the LORD for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for men, for he satisfies the thirsty soul and fills the hungry soul with goodness. (Psalm 107:8,9) KJV

I Needed That

The word thanks was translated from a Hebrew word that literally means to use the hand, to revere in worship with extended hands, and confession of need.

I love that. When we say, “Thank you,” we are saying, “I needed that! “

When we come to God with hearts of gratitude we are confessing our need for His goodness. And the verse promises that he satisfies or fill us, the hungry and thirsty souls, with goodness which is His Spirit. Only God is pure goodness. Only God is good.

When we come to God with hearts of gratitude we are confessing our need for His goodness.… Click To Tweet

I think this will be my prayer before I put the turkey in the oven this year.

“Thank you for your amazing plan of redemption through Jesus, oh God. I need you.”

Thankfulness is not some sort of magic formula; it is the language of Love, which enables you to communicate intimately with Me. A thankful mind-set does not entail a denial of reality with its plethora of problems. Instead, it rejoices in Me your Savior, in the midst of trials and tribulations . . . . ” (Jesus Calling)

 

Bite of Bread Bible Reading Plan

Thanksgiving is a week away, but let’s prepare our hearts. Actually, thanksgiving is a lifestyle, not a one day event. And these verses can help us incorporate living thankfully everyday.

Go Deeper

You can  take a screen shot of the reading plan and read each verse daily or you can go deeper using the printable I made just for you. The printable contains the scriptures below and questions and prompts to maximize your quiet time in the Word. Linger a little longer. Think deeper. Question. Pray.

Sneak Peek of the BoB

Psalm 107:8,9Let them give thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for mankind,
for he satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things. There is always something to be thankful for.

Philippians 1:3-6 I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now,  being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.

2 Cor. 2:14 But thanks be to God, who always leads us as captives in Christ’s triumphal procession and uses us to spread the aroma of the knowledge of him everywhere.

2 Cor. 9:11-15  You will be enriched in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God. This service that you perform is not only supplying the needs of the Lord’s people but is also overflowing in many expressions of thanks to God.  Because of the service by which you have proved yourselves, others will praise God for the obedience that accompanies your confession of the gospel of Christ, and for your generosity in sharing with them and with everyone else. And in their prayers for you their hearts will go out to you, because of the surpassing grace God has given you. Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!

Colossians 1: 3-6: We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for you, because we have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love you have for all God’s people— the faith and love that spring from the hope stored up for you in heaven and about which you have already heard in the true message of the gospel that has come to you. In the same way, the gospel is bearing fruit and growing throughout the whole world—just as it has been doing among you since the day you heard it and truly understood God’s grace.

Psalm 69:30 I will praise God’s name in song and glorify him with thanksgiving.

Psalm 147:7 Sing to the Lord with grateful praise; make music to our God on the harp.

An Invitation

Would you come to my table? I’d love to fellowship with you every weekday morning to dig deeper into each verse and encourage your faith. All you need is Facebook and a friend named Andy Lee (that’s me). I’ll meet you on my page at 8:20 AM ET. You should see me pop up on the corner of your screen. But if Facebook isn’t your thing, you can still watch the teachings via You Tube. Click here to see my channel and subscribe so you don’t miss a teaching.

 

Dig deep. Live fully. You are loved.

 

Thankful for Jesus and for you,

 

Andy

 

 

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13 thoughts on “5 Things to Do if Celebrating Thanksgiving is Hard This Year”

  • 1

    I have so much to be thankful for and God’s goodness is at the top of the list. Thank you for a beautiful reminder.

    Stopping by from Coffee for Your Heart. God bless you!

    • 2
      Andy on November 15, 2017 Reply

      Thanks Connie! So glad you stopped by. Blessings!

  • 3
    Tracey on November 14, 2017 Reply

    Love these words of encouragement!! I know there will be days I’ll need to refer back to this advice.

    • 4
      Andy on November 15, 2017 Reply

      So glad you could visit today. I’m so glad you were encouraged. Blessings!

  • 5
    Valerie Murray on November 14, 2017 Reply

    Great ideas for celebrating Thanksgiving when it may be hard. Adjusting to changing traditions due to the loss of our loved ones is always so difficult. Thank you for the reminders to give ourselves permission to have a low-key day and rest in the goodness of God. Blessings to you!

    • 6
      Andy on November 14, 2017 Reply

      Thanks Valerie! Thanks for stopping by. Have a blessed holiday of thanks. Blessings to you too!

  • 7
    Joanne on November 13, 2017 Reply

    I needed that! Really. This is my first Thanksgiving without both of my parents, so my husband and I are going to cook food for the shelter. Thanks for sharing my post about letting to. It’s good for my words to come back around to remind me.

    • 8
      Andy on November 14, 2017 Reply

      So glad this blessed you JoAnne! Loved sharing your post here, and I love that you are serving at the shelter. Love you, friend!

  • 9
    Rachel Lee on November 13, 2017 Reply

    A beautiful post, Andy! I love that you make room at your table for other families who may be unable to gather with their own families for Thanksgiving, as well. Isn’t that what it’s all about?

    “I thank the Lord for those good memories, and then I let go, as best I can, to make room for new memories.” Yes and amen! There is a true beauty in the letting go, in order to make room for…

    Great ideas for celebrating the holidays when it might be a hard year. Thanks for sharing your heart!

    -Blessed to be your neighbor at Grit Up this morning. 😉

    • 10
      Andy on November 13, 2017 Reply

      Thanks Rachel! So glad you could stop by from the Grit Up!

  • 11
    Annie on November 23, 2016 Reply

    Love this Andy! Thank you for sharing your heart.

    • 12
      Andy on November 25, 2016 Reply

      Thanks Annie! Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving with your family.

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